How To Find The Best Therapist For You

If you’re struggling with a mental health condition like anxiety or depression, it can help to consult a professional therapist.

The most important thing to remember is that you’re not alone. Almost half of all Australians between 16 to 85 years old experience mental illness at some point. The most common mental health conditions are anxiety, depression and substance use disorders, but just because you don’t fall into one of the well-known disorders doesn’t mean you can’t see a therapist.

Since the COVID-19 pandemic, the government has been making mental health treatments more accessible. In 2023, healthcare professionals such as licensed therapists and psychologists are more in-demand than ever, and there’s less stigma about seeking help with your mental health. While Australians have been getting more comfortable talking about mental health, it can still be challenging to find a psychologist that feels right. Perhaps you don’t know where to start or have been discouraged by past experiences. Therapy isn’t a one-size-fits-all approach, and what works for one person may not work for another.

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It can be challenging to be vulnerable with a potential therapist, especially since they will be a stranger to you at your first appointment. Finding a good match takes patience and self-awareness, but once you find the right therapist for you, you’ll become empowered through fresh insights and strategies for positive, lifelong changes.

In this article, New Vision Psychology provides invaluable tips to guide you towards finding the perfect therapist in 2023.

Before The Session

Understand your counselling goals

To get the most out of therapy, it is essential to establish your goals. Why are you seeking professional help? What would you like to achieve? What does success look like to you? It’s ok if you’re unsure – during your first session, your therapist can figure this out with you based on your values and mental health needs.

Do your research

In narrowing down potential candidates, you’ll probably consider practical factors such as their location, fee structure, telehealth services,  whether they offer Medicare or private health rebates, office hours and after-hours options.

When researching community mental health clinics, you may also want to consider the following:

Cultural background

Some of us may prefer a therapist from a similar culture, religion, gender, sexual orientation or age group. It’s your right to have a personal preference when it comes to choosing a therapist.

People with similar backgrounds share lived realities of certain experiences. This prevents situations where the client has to educate the therapist about their background, which could be frustrating and potentially triggering. Find a therapist with similar life experiences to reduce barriers and enhance mutual understanding and trust when forming a therapeutic relationship.

Type of mental health professional and therapeutic modality

Are you looking for a psychiatrist, psychologist, counsellor or social worker? Each of these mental health professionals makes use of different processes and treatments. Choosing the right psychological treatment depends on your mental health issues and therapy goals.

Some popular therapeutic modalities include:

  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
  • Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)
  • Solution Focused Therapy
  • Positive Psychology (Coaching)
  • Psychoanalytic/Psychodynamic Therapy

Experience and qualifications

Does your therapist have relevant experience, registrations (for example, at the Australian Psychological Society) and qualifications to handle the specific issues you’re seeking help with? Find out about your therapist’s areas of expertise – are you looking for someone who specialises in relationship counselling, child and adolescent issues, trauma and PTSD or something else?

Counselling style

Every therapist has their own approach and therapy process. For instance, some may be highly structured, establishing a 3-month plan with fortnightly in-person appointments. Others may work more flexibly and book single sessions according to your progress.

There is no right or wrong way – what’s important is that both you and your therapist establish a system that works for you.

Interview the therapist

Arrange a quick phone call with your shortlisted candidates before making your first appointment. You could also email them to give them an overview of what you’re hoping to achieve from the sessions. These initial points of contact will help you get a feel of what the therapist is like and allow both parties to address any questions.

Some types of questions you may ask include:

  • What’s your education and specialised training in this area?
  • What is your specialty?
  • How much experience do you have working with people with my issues or history?
  • What kind of treatments do you offer?
  • How does this therapeutic modality work?
  • Is this intervention effective for my condition?

During The Session

Assess your rapport with the psychologist and notice how you feel

Effective counselling requires the willingness to be truthful and vulnerable, so it is crucial that you feel secure and at ease with your therapist. Good rapport involves genuine connection and engagement. Research shows that the therapeutic relationship is the most important factor in psychological efficacy, even more so than the therapist’s experience, gender, expertise or any other factors!

To know whether you’re a good match, use your feelings as a gauge. How do you feel during and after the sessions? Listen to your gut. Although therapy will be uncomfortable and challenging at times, it should ultimately feel respectful, non-judgmental and collaborative.

After The Session

At the end of your first consultation, you should feel heard, understood, supported and hopeful that things can change. A good therapist should have outlined a mental health care treatment plan and strategies to achieve your goals.

To get the most out of therapy at a psychology clinic, you must be ready to do some work in between sessions. The work doesn’t stop when you leave the room; you’ll only experience lasting change when you implement your new strategies in your daily life.

Allow yourself to assess how the therapeutic relationship feels after the first couple of sessions.

If you feel like you’re not getting much out of your session, it is important to let your therapist know so they can adjust their approach. If something doesn’t feel right, continue your search. It’s is a bit like dating! Most people go to a number of therapists before finding the perfect fit. When you find “the one”, you’ll be on your way to living life to your fullest potential.

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